Friday, November 18, 2005

Guess where we're going tonight ? ? ?

Guess! Let's see, it is Friday, November 18th. Those in the know will know!










Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire!

Opening day tickets. Of course, Josh thinks only weirdos and fanatics that dress up in HP glasses and wizard hats are the ones who go on opening day. But, hey, what can I say? I've dragged my kids to buy the books at midnight. OK, maybe not dragged. Last time I believe it was Kristen who dragged Josh. Anyhoo... tonight's the night!

Jacqui Needs... a fun game

Okay, this is pretty funny. I read about this "____" needs... game on another blog. You type in your name and the word "needs" in Google. So I typed in "Jacqui Needs" with the quotes. Then you list the top ten things that come up. Here are mine.

Jacqui needs to open her mouth and sing, no marketing needed. (okay, maybe this one isn't true!)
Jacqui needs to ensure that she has saved enough during the first twenty years. (yep! Saving is always good.)
Jacqui needs more bread. (Definitely. The green kind always comes in handy.)
Jacqui needs a group shot. (of my family for the Christmas letter)
Jacqui needs eye drops to help her vision. (that would be nice... no more contacts!)
Jacqui needs a visa to enter Bolivia. (huh? Maybe someday I'll visit there!)
Jacqui needs to take her mom home. (She's already there, she's the sunshine in my hair, she's the shadow on the ground, she's the whisper in the wind... get the idea?)
Jacqui needs space. Lots of it. (Oh, yeah baby. I need my space!)
Jacqui needs to look fresh and natural. (Instead of frumpy and a wannabe?)
Jacqui needs to hire another couple of people just to keep up. (So true. Wouldn't that be nice?)

What's funny is that besides most of these having a lot of truth to them, there is actually another Jacqui out there who posted a similar list on her blog!

Your turn now... post them on your blog!

Tuesday, November 15, 2005

Movies I would like to see but haven't

Care to add any recommendations to my list? (and no snide remarks about the teenybopper movies on my list, okay?)

Movies I want to see:

50 first dates
A Cinderella Story
The Perfect Score
Polar Express
The Prince and Me
Alex and Emma
Holes
Home on the Range
I am Sam
Radio
Ray
Anger Management
Around the World in 80 Days
Aviator
Robots
Batman Begins
Laws of Attraction
Shallow Hal
Cat in the Hat
Little Black Book
Christmas with the Kranks
Confessions of a Teenage Drama Queen
Count of Monte Cristo
Mean Girls
Stepford Wives
Mona Lisa Smile
Tuck Everlasting
Under the Tuscan Sun
Uptown Girls
Garfield
What a Girl Wants
Wimbledon
The Girl with the Pearl Earring
Must Love Dogs
Elizabethtown
The Brothers Grimm
March of the Penguins
Charlie and the Chocolate Factory
War of the Worlds
Fantastic Four
Bewitched
The Island
Mr. and Mrs. Smith
Madagascar
Herbie: Fully Loaded
Monster-in-law
National Treasure
Sahara
Ice Princess
Spanglish
Lemony Snicket
Chicken Little
Pride and Prejudice
Zathura
The Legend of Zorro
Where the Heart Is
Erin Brochovich
Family Man
Love Letter
The Notebook
Just Like Heaven
In America


When it’s edited…
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
Love Actually
Shopgirl

I've got a lot of watchin' to do!!!

Monday, November 07, 2005

quote of the day

"Being tolerant does not mean that I share another’s belief. But it does mean that I acknowledge another one’s right to believe, and obey, his own conscience."
Victor Frankl

I love it when I find a quote that so succinctly expresses my view!

Sunday, November 06, 2005

The Beach Revisited







Here are a few photos I promised. First I'll share my "mistakes". My camera has a dial on the top to chose what type of mode you want to take a photograph in, like automatic, movies, nighttime, portrait mode and photo effects, like sepia. When I was at the beach I didn't realize I had accidentaly moved the dial to sepia mode. So that's why these photos look like they do.
Then I realized I actually like them like that. The old fashioned sepia tones add to the ambiance of the timelessness of the beach.

Thursday, November 03, 2005

First you take a pumpkin...

First you take a pumpkin, big and round and fat.
Then you take the top off, that makes the hat.
Then you make some holes for the mouth, the nose, eyes,
Making for the children a Halloween surprise!

I actually sung that Joy School song for my seminary class on Halloween. I brought an uncarved pumpkin and talked about how fun it can be to carve pumpkins. But, you know me, everything has to have a purpose. The purpose of bringing a pumpkin as an object lesson was to point out how much we are like pumpkins. ("really", I hear you say.) We need to open up, clean out all the crud inside us, so we can light up and shine. And what we put on the outside, a scary face, a sad face, or a happy face, is up to us.

My kids have lost that lovin' feeling towards carving pumpkins for Halloween. Actually, Josh did have a great idea... he wanted to carve it like Strongbad from Homestarrunner.com. I was like, uh, no. But after he showed me the stencil he got off the internet, I agreed it was an awesome jack-o-lantern. Here's how it turned out:

Crabbing...


When we went on our beach vacation to Jekyll Island I decided we needed to try our hand at crabbing. It is, after all, a Reaves family tradition. I remember standing at the end of my grandfather's dock on the Chesapeake Bay with some chicken guts tied to a string. Something would tug on it and we'd pull up the string with a crab attached! Of course, after that, I wouldn't swim in the water where we caught the crabs. I was afraid of getting pinched!

So I decided to hand down this tradition, and fear of getting pinched, to my boys. We had bought the equipment on the way down, (all you need is a crabbing net, some string and some weights) and picked up a fishing license and some bait at the local hardware store. (Where we witnessed a lady back up into a stop sign, completely knock it over, and then just drive off. Tourists!) But I digress. Crabbing bait consists of the most disgusting parts of the chicken you can find. Livers, gizzards, necks, parts. Necks seemed to be the favorite food on the crabs menu. We had two different recommendations on when was the best time to crab, low tide or high tide. We chose low tide with the tide coming in. We asked a local where was the best place to crab and that's where we headed.

We set up on a footbridge across a creek that emptied out on the north side of the island. We had quite the audience as it was fairly entertaining.



We dropped some lines in, and pretty soon we had some nibbles.


You have to carefully pull the string up and catch the crab with the net before you get it out of the water, then he lets go.



The only piece of equipment we forgot to bring was something to keep our catch in, so we used a laundry basket I had brought. You aren't supposed to keep crabs in buckets filled with water. They drown from lack of oxygen. I'm not sure I really get how keeping them in an airy basket helps them live longer. I think we caught about 20, but we threw several back because they were too small. You can't keep females with eggs on them either, but I don't think we came across any of those.



Bryan caught a big guy he named Jerry. I warned him about naming animals you are eventually going to eat!



After sentencing them to their death (and I tell you it's harder than you think to put a live creature into boiling water. I made Marc do it.) they turn from a pretty blue to a bright red, and you know they are ready for eating.

Then you have a crab feast. Now that is a tradition that I had already exposed my girls to. But somebody else had always prepared them. Somehow, catching them made them a little harder to eat.

To quote Josh as we sat down to eat... "I think I lost my appetite!".


A crab feast is a big mess. Hard work picking all that delectable crabmeat out, but totally worth it! Yum!